5 Things About Women And Dating That Every Man Should Know

Started by Sunexx360, Nov 01, 2012, 06:32 PM

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In today's post I want to share five things about women every man should know, things I've learned along the way that might be useful to some of you.
5. Always Have A Plan
When you meet a woman who interests you,the first step toward carving out your own little space in her life is showing her that youcan be relied upon. The easiest way to show her that you're reliable is to tell her what you're going to do and then do it. It starts with the little things. If you take her card andtell her you'll email her the next day, email the next day. Be on time when you meet for drinks and when you decide to have your first official date, have it planned from beginning to end. She won't tell you how much she appreciates it right away, but appreciate it she will. Having a plan and thenknowing how to make it come together is one of the easiest ways to separate yourself from most of the men she's encountered. Most women say they love spontaneity, but what they don't tell you is that they want that spontaneity to be experienced within the confines of an executed plan. A good woman will follow you through the gates of hell as long as you have an exit strategy and as long as you told her that going through hell was part of the plan.
4. You Can't Save Them All
When I was younger, I thought all women were, by nature – good, possessed of good morals and good character. The ones whosebehavior indicated otherwise were women who had somehow gone astray and could be saved by the right man. The truth is, you will meet some women and you will take them as they are. Be to them who you need to be at that moment and allow her to be foryou, who you need her to be at that moment. You'll use each other, emotionally, intercourseually and in any other way you might desire.  That's just part of life. The key is for you to make sure you both go into it with both eyes open, communicating to one another your expectations, or lack there of, accurately. You will not fall in love with every woman who falls in love with you, you can't be everything for every woman you meet, and you can't save all the women in your life because not all of them will want to be saved. Some of them will just want you, then.
3. Let Her Talk ... and Listen to What She Says
Another key part to endearing yourself to a woman you're interested in is letting her talkand listening to what she says. As men, we like to brag, we like to boast, we like to let women know how great we are. There's nothing wrong with that, in moderation – asyou should be your own biggest fan. The keyis to make sure you do way more listening than talking, especially in the early stages of a relationship. You'd be surprised at how little women are heard in our society. Women are often marginalized and unheard at their jobs, when they talk to their girlfriend's they usually just swap stories, never really taking in what each other are saying. If you listen to what she says, taking care to appreciate the everyday minute of her life, she won't be able to help but fall for you. The other, more important benefit of letting her talk and listening to what she says is that you actually get to learn her. You get a real opportunity to see what she's really about which will help you determine whether or not this is someone you really want to be with.





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