Here is the latest article by Nollywood actress Stella Damasus culled from PM's My Thoughts By Stella column.
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A lot of us think we know it all and have done it all because of who we have been, what we have been and where we have been. I am referring to those of us who believe that we are so intelligent, educated and talented; and because of that, we feel that we can plan our lives, our future and even our purpose.
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We feel we already know where we will be and how we will get there. We depend so much on our intelligence and exposure. We think we have all the connections in the world and all the money, the fame and the looks to do whatever we want and get just about anything we want.
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It might interest you to know that those of us wh feel like this are the most confused and the. most unhappy people around. We are internally unfulfilled and unsure but we will never let anyone notice.
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We are the most vulnerable but no one will ever know because we always seem to be in charge and on top of everything. We seem bold and always calculated but the truth is we are afraid of being taken advantage of. Truth is we are the ones that look over our shoulders, we cannot trust, it's not easy for us to love truly, deeply and madly. We are the ones who get scared when we are not sure of the outcome of things, we easily lose our self-esteem at the slightest change or shift of attention when it's away from us. We are always afraid of losing because we feel it will take away the essence of who we have become. We do not like to depend on anything or anyone but ourselves.
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These are some of the major reasons the rich and famous always have issues with their lives, no matter how hard they try to stay happy and remain fulfilled.