Dating can be a nightmare for many, so dating websites for people with intercourseually transmitted infections (STIs), can save embarrassment and rejection.
(http://www.channelstv.com/home/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/Date-positive-300x193.jpg) (http://www.channelstv.com/home/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/Date-positive.jpg)The most difficult thing about Herpes and HIV is that it carries a social stigma, says dating website UK Positive Singles. When it comes to dating, you may have fewer choices because of your condition.
Also, if you are dating with other singles without an STI, you are most likely to be rejected by them after telling the truth.
UK Positive Singles has 30,000 members in the UK, accumulating 100,000 new members last year worldwide – and DatePositive, which has more than 6,000 profiles, allow users to search for people with almost any intercourseually transmitted infection.
Other websites such as H-YPE or H-Date, are aimed specifically at people with the most common types of incurable STIs, such as herpes and HPV, which causes genital warts.
'If you have just been told you have herpes or HPV and you feel like your life is over, well, we are here to prove to you that it's not. In fact, it's a whole new start,' it says on H-YPE.
Once logged on to the websites, users enter age and intercourseual preference. Then they can search for people with a specific intercourseually transmitted infection.
The rise in these dating sites coincides with increasing rates of STIs. In the UK there was a two per cent rise in new cases from 2010-2011, according to the Health Protection Agency's latest statistics. More than 100,000 people in the UK are diagnosed with genital herpes or HPV every year.
Meanwhile, there are about 20 million new STI cases each year in the US, and about 110 million in total, says the Centre for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC).
'[Some people] feel like freaks, like lepers,' Max, 44, who set up dating site H-YPE., told BBC News.
Kate, 36, from Manchester, who has herpes, thinks the stigma attached to STIs also means 'people assume you've slept around'.
In reality, many people contract STIs from long-term partners – and some people only discover they've contracted an infection at the same time they find out their partner has been unfaithful.
Kate recalls how a promising relationship was ruined by the disclosure of her herpes. 'It came up in conversation and I was petrified. It broke us. He didn't want to take any chances.'
On most of these dating websites, users can write honestly about their feelings and no longer have to be secretive about their condition.
There's also a sense of community and support, and often there's online counsellors and blogs from people sharing their experiences
But some people are concerned about the message STI dating websites could send.
'These sites can make people think 'now I am a leper I need to find a leper to date',' says HVA (Herpes Viruses Association) director Marian Nicholson. 'People shouldn't narrow their pool of potential partners.'
'Just because you have the same STI as someone else, it doesn't mean they're the same as you in other respects,' says Dr Pakianathan. 'One STI doesn't preclude the presence of others.'
For HIV sufferers, there's the risk of a 'super infection' from a drug-resistant strain carried by someone else, he says. And there are more 100 strains of HPV, of which more than 30 affect the genital area.
intercourseUALLY TRANSMITTED INFECTIONS ON THE RISE
More than 15,000 under-16s were diagnosed with diseases including gonorrhoea, chlamydia and genital herpes in the last three years.
The number of children aged under 16 with STIs nearly doubled in the last 10 years – and there are fears the situation could be worse because many boys do not get tested.
Campaigners such as the Terrence Higgins Trust politicians for failing to make intercourse education compulsory.
The Health Protection Agency figures, obtained by the Mirror under the Freedom of Information Act, revealed 13 children aged under 16 are diagnosed with STIs every single dayThe number of children aged under 16 with STIs spiralled by 93% from 2,474 in 2003 to 4,777 in 2011.
Infections contracted included chlamydia, gonorrhoea, genital herpes, genital warts, chancroid and lymphogranuloma venereum.
UK
• 426,867 new diagnoses of intercourseually transmitted infections in 2011
• 31,154 new cases of genital herpes
• 76,071 of genital warts
US
• 110 million total (new and existing) STI cases
• 20 million new STI cases a year
• 24 million people with HSV-2 (usually genital herpes)
• 79 million people with HPV (causes genital warts)
Culled from Dailymail.co.uk
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