Knowing your right man or woman

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I've heard ladies and guys says all they want in their guy or lady to be. I've even read ladies and guys posting on their profile page in social network all they really want in their partner to be.

Most of them say something like; "he or she must be tall, nice, kind, loving, intercoursey, romancing, fun to be with, handsome and beautiful.

Having the right partner could be among those things mention above in a man or lady, but it really goes beyond all the facial and external interest many of desire.

Though everyone want something pleasing and beautiful to behold, something we can be proud of, something we can go in and out with comfortably, but then, it goes far beyond that very beautiful lady or guy you met on friend's birthday, it goes beyond that very handsome, tall, slim, rich and intercoursey guy. All of this are just self-pleasing way of getting what we want and it is what any guy or lady can pretend to be to a lady or any lady can pretend to be to a guy just to get her attention.

Having a fulfilling marital life God desires goes for beyond the way we see it externally. The kind of marital life God want for his people are the one he will be able to achieve his purpose in and that is totally impossible when we look from without.

The Bible did not tell us that the face of man is evil but the heart of man and it is definitely only God can know it. It is then better to give ones heart to God to give to whomever he wants.

A man's marital life is to precious and vital to be decided by the external appearance of his partner to be. It is the beauty of God in a marriage that keeps it going.

THE DANGER IN LOOKING FROM WITHOUT WHEN CHOOSING A LIFE PARTNER.

The story of Samson is one to ponder on. Is something most of us fall into. Samson was a mighty young man and a savior right from her mother's womb. God has a purpose for his life even when he was yet to be born just has it does to us. He was to be a savior to the people of God- the Israelites.

His future was at the brink of going down when it was time for him to choose a partner. He was more interested at the beauty of the woman of Philistine at the expense of the inner beauty God sees in every heart. He saw a beautiful woman but God sees a devilish heart.

Many of us knows what ended Samson's life, the man who was born as a savior forfeited his future due to wrong choice that anyone can make when he tries to choose from without.

The truth is that there is always a woman of Philistine of this age when we try to choose our  life partner by ourselves, when we try to choose from the facial appearance.
The woman or man who will cause more destructive harm to ones dreams and great future one is intended to live.

HINTS ON HOW TO CHOOSE RIGHTLY AND GODLY

1.   God is a beautiful God, he made everything beautiful. Seek His face on the kind of life partner you want. He will lead the one he knows will not break your heart and that fits in to your life's assignment.

2.   Ask God to give your heart to anyone that will value it. He sees the intents of all hearts and knows the end from the beginning.

3.   When you choose by yourself and there is a challenge in your marital life along the way, you may not be able to question God because his hand is not in it.

To Choose rightly, choose from God's perspective and to do this, ask Him to choose for YOU.

REMAIN BLESS

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Thanks For Reading.

Article Submitted by Olawale Olanipekun.

[Davzy folamz]

Wow! I luv dis.

[Davzy folamz]

Now i can find the right woman.

[Nifemi donald]

Tnxs for this article.I lov it.

[KingFemzee]

True to the letter, it goes beyond outward appearance when it comes to finding the right person, whats the use of beauty without character?

[Stanley_13001]

what an articles this is. so  much to learn from this

[doctor]

this post tells me i am on track in my relationship