Author Topic: How to communicate with a guy after he rejected you !  (Read 1200 times)

sofamous70

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You liked him and he talked to you a whole lot. Then,you gave it a try, thinking he would never hurt you. But, you were wrong. You might still like him, and might still want to talk. It might be awkward, but if you try this, it's gonna be fine.

1. Wait for the right time:  Wait until he is comfortable. It may take weeks, or maybe months, to gather up your courage, so wait for that time. Once you feel okay, you can move on.

2. Make the effort:  Slowly start to sit closer to him in classes. Stand by him in lines. Talk to his friends. Make sure you glance at him in classes. And if he stares back, it's a pretty good chance he might want to talk. So, make him think you're not afraid of talking with him. Now, move on.

3. Ask your friends to sit by you and talk to them like crazy: It will catch his eye. Be funny and care-free. Then, you can say something really ditzy, and hit it off. When he looks your way, start laughing and say "Well, that was really stupid!" and he likely will respond. Or, you can sing a song he knows. Make him sing too.

4. Start looking at him more: Talk to him. Make the effort. Act like he's one of your friends.

5. After something so hard, give yourself time and him, so you can get rid of the awkwardness: Once you're ready, just get to know him better, as a friend. Send him small messages like 'what's up?', and it will show him that you guys are cool. And who knows? Maybe trying to be friend with him will one day make him fall for you, and see what he missed out on.

6. Be yourself:  You can dress nicer and all, but just keep in mind, he might like you for you more than you think!

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Re: How to communicate with a guy after he rejected you !
« Reply #1 on: Oct 05, 2011, 07:08 AM »
Communication after rejection, is always a difficult thing to do, either as a man or woman. It takes a man or woman of good courage, to keep in touch with his/her ex. Some keep in touch with ex's for some reasons. For example, if there is strong tie between them {kid(s)}.

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Re: How to communicate with a guy after he rejected you !
« Reply #2 on: Oct 05, 2011, 02:37 PM »
i totally agree with you....good point...:)

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Re: How to communicate with a guy after he rejected you !
« Reply #2 on: Oct 05, 2011, 02:37 PM »