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Kiss Him First (For girls)
« on: Oct 05, 2011, 03:40 PM »
In most societies around the world, it's traditionally up to the guy to initiate a couple's first kiss. If you're a girl, this takes a lot of pressure off you, but sometimes it can be frustrating if you want to be kissed but your guy is a little too shy to try to kiss you. Here's how to hint that you would like to be kissed.

1. Be inviting: Because of respect for your wishes (and the fear of rejection) a guy generally won't try for a first kiss unless he's pretty sure you want him to. If you do, you should try to make him feel comfortable and confident. Flirt with him,laugh at his jokes,smile a lot, and compliment him. If you put him at ease and let him know you enjoy being with him, he'll usually find the courage to try to kiss you.

2. Break the touch barrier: Touch him lightly on the arm or shoulder when you're talking. Just make it a quick, innocent touch and don't make a big deal out of it. Holding hands is also a good way to break the touch barrier. The simple act of touching can strengthen the intimacy between you and him. Sometimes a guy will break the touch barrier, and if you're comfortable with him doing so, touch him back. But don't wait for a guy to make the first move here, because girls can generally get away with breaking the touch barrier earlier in a relationship than guys can.

3. Look at his lips: When you're alone with a guy and want to be kissed, make eyes contact and then move your gaze briefly down to his lips. Then move your eyes back up to meet his and smile demurely. You don't have to be really obvious about it. Many guys will take the hint, especially if they've read one of the many articles that lists this as a sign that a girl wants to be kissed. If it doesn't work the first time, try again when the time is right.

4. Move in: You have to be close to each other to kiss, and the less distance a guy has to travel to kiss you, the easier it is for him to give it a try. So get close. When the moment seems right, put your face close to his and look at him expectantly. If you're brave, you could try moving in as though you're going to kiss him. Hopefully he'll take the hint and kiss you, but if he doesn't you can give him a playful little kiss on the cheek.

5. Talk about it: If the guy isn't taking your subtle hints, bring up kissing in conversation. For example, if you're watching a movie together and see an on-screen kiss, mention that it's "so romantic" or something to that effect. If the guy is really shy, you might just want to put it on the line and tell him that you'd like him to kiss you. 

6. Kiss him: There's no law that says the guy has to initiate the kiss, and some guys--especially if they've never kissed a girl before--just won't take your hints. If you want to kiss him, just go ahead and do it.

D-law

 

emezico

Re: Kiss Him First (For girls)
« Reply #1 on: Oct 08, 2011, 07:25 AM »
Kissing, a magical instrument in a relationship :)

Jobbers

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Re: Kiss Him First (For girls)
« Reply #2 on: Oct 08, 2011, 07:37 AM »
Good stuffs that make relationship last longer. But there are some girls that don't really like kissing or to be kissed. How do you stimulate such girls from the guys' angle?

emezico

Re: Kiss Him First (For girls)
« Reply #3 on: Oct 08, 2011, 09:23 AM »
Yeah, it is true some girls don't like kissing. It is left for guys to figure out what stimulates their ladies. For example, touching the boobs or caressing could simulate some girls/ladies love nerves :)

Re: Kiss Him First (For girls)
« Reply #4 on: Oct 08, 2011, 11:20 AM »
@emezico you are really right..:) @ jobber....trust me most girls like kissing,but some things sometimes hold them back,like culture or traditions,local people's reactions....but you can win a girl to kiss you by telling her how its helps relationship or you show her some video or you tube...this might help...:)

Re: Kiss Him First (For girls)
« Reply #5 on: Apr 14, 2012, 12:53 PM »
@emezico....this article also throws more like on kissing...:)

emezico

Re: Kiss Him First (For girls)
« Reply #6 on: Apr 14, 2012, 03:26 PM »
@emezico....this article also throws more like on kissing...:)

Hehehe...l know where you are driving at. :D

Re: Kiss Him First (For girls)
« Reply #7 on: Apr 14, 2012, 06:14 PM »
Profile ma na your way...,also am waiting for you to really post an article on the effects of....either positive or negative of Punanni....:)

emezico

Re: Kiss Him First (For girls)
« Reply #8 on: Apr 15, 2012, 04:24 AM »
Profile ma na your way...,also am waiting for you to really post an article on the effects of....either positive or negative of Punanni....:)

Keep your finger crossed! :D

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