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Get over your first love !( your Ex)
« on: Oct 07, 2011, 03:07 PM »
Perhaps nothing is ever quite as painful as getting over your first love. It's not just any old break-up; this is the boy/girl who taught you what it means to fall in love. You thought you'd spend the rest of your lives together. You made plans for the future to live together or go to college together. You have loads of jokes and memories of the time you spent together. Now that it's over, you're scared that you'll never find anyone to ever replace them, or maybe you're just afraid that you wont ever be as happy with someone else. Here are some tips to help you get over it:

1. Firstly you need to want to get over them. At first it will hurt so much that you will not be able to start to get over them, and you may believe that you two will eventually get back together. This may last for quite a while but eventually you will realize that you actually don't want to get back with this person. After realizing this you can move easily onto the next steps.

2. Cut off all communication with your ex. Harsh, but it's the only thing that works. You probably feel like you're losing the best friend you ever had, the only person who truly understood you. It might hurt at first, but it will get better. You cannot be friends while you attempt to get over each other.

3. Do not hook up at all with your ex. You will start right back at square one, and all the work you did trying to get over them will be wasted.

4. Recall why you broke up, what you hated about him/her, and what you could never agree on. You may tend to remember only what you love about your ex, and your happiest memories together. If they cheated on you, stop justifying it, and realize you can find someone who loves you and would never be unfaithful.

5. Realize that just because this relationship is over, it doesn't mean that you'll never find love again. Ask your friends, your parents, how they got over their first loves. Many people will remember how hard it was to get over them but will also admit that they found greater loves in their lifetime.

6. You may find it hard to sleep, or get back to sleep when you wake in the middle of the night. When it is dark, and everyone else around you is sound asleep, this can be the most lonely time ever. During the day take lots of exercise, go for a long long walk, make sure you are exhausted when you go to bed, it will help you sleep better/get off to sleep. You'll also benefit physically from the extra activity, and exercise is great for depression.

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Get over your first love !( your Ex)
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Re: Get over your first love !( your Ex)
« Reply #1 on: Oct 07, 2011, 10:02 PM »
For some people, it is always difficult to get rid of first love. But, life must continue! :D

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Re: Get over your first love !( your Ex)
« Reply #2 on: Oct 08, 2011, 11:40 AM »
Forgetting first love sometimes is really hard,especially if the person is the emotional type,but really life has to move on...:)

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« Reply #2 on: Oct 08, 2011, 11:40 AM »