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sofamous70

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Don't start to say 'I love you' too soon !
« on: Oct 07, 2011, 03:24 PM »
You're in a relationship with a hottie. You want to make it last, but how? There are really only a few simple steps to understand when you're in a relationship. Single people might think that it's really obvious, but if you're in a relationship, you just don't see things the same anymore.

1. Communicate! Talk quite a bit, but don't keep calling over and over and over again. It's bad. Also falling in with this rule: If you think it's starting to go wrong, TALK!! It's important to tell the person you're seeing, so there is a chance to fix it.

2. Don't smother them! It's nice to spend time with them, but being around them constantly will eventually get old. You both have to go out and do things with your own friends.

3. If the person fell for you because you're funny, or you're fun to hang around with, don't change when you start to go out. Don't get all lovey-dovey, because they won't be dating you for the reason they started to date you anymore.

4. Don't consistently tell the person you're dating that they're hot, that you feel lucky that you got them, or that you don't know how you got them. They might start to feel the same way, and wonder why they're dating you. Just don't compliment too much. Don't do too much.

5. Don't talk about ex's, or these other girls/guys you were talking to at school/work/home/whatever. Even if you tell her/him that nothing happened and you would never cheat, you shouldn't make them think that. They should never think that, because then they could turn out to be paranoid. The obvious addition to this step is DON'T CHEAT!

6. Don't be suspicious of them. If you don't trust the person you're dating, you won't last very long. It ruins it.
 
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Don't start to say 'I love you' too soon !
« on: Oct 07, 2011, 03:24 PM »

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Re: Don't start to say 'I love you' too soon !
« Reply #1 on: Oct 07, 2011, 09:06 PM »
I totally agree with piece. "l love you", people often say it without truly meaning it.

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Re: Don't start to say 'I love you' too soon !
« Reply #2 on: Oct 08, 2011, 11:46 AM »
saying this word should be like a blood flowing your body.....its life to relationship and marriage,but so unfortunate people just say this word with no passion...:)

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Re: Don't start to say 'I love you' too soon !
« Reply #2 on: Oct 08, 2011, 11:46 AM »