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sofamous70

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Why sleep alone at night?
« on: Oct 08, 2011, 12:01 PM »
Are you single? Are you tired and fed up of seeing happy, in love couples kissing in parks and walking through the city arm in arm? Do you feel lonely that everyone else in your social group has a boyfriend or a girlfriend? Being single is not a bad thing, it's just a hard thing to go through and can play with your emotions and self confidence. Read this step-by step article about how you can deal with being single and feeling lonely!

1. Being in a relationship does not make you a better, more achieved person. It doesn't matter if you haven't met someone yet who is crazy about you, as you are with them, these things take time. Finding someone who is 100% compatible with doesn't just happen out of the blue, you or they have to find you first.

2. If you are feeling lonely, talk to your family and hang out with your friends. Sitting on your own, in a darken room with the curtains closed will do nothing for your confidence and will make you feel more pessimistic. Get out there and socialize with friends and take your mind off being single!

3. Some say that you don't find love, love finds you. What this old saying means is love isn't something you buy, it's something that is earned and discovered. Sure there are those people that are always in relationships, but if you actually think about it, how many of those people are in love? Just don't go round thinking you are going to be lonely for the rest of your life because you WILL meet the person of your dreams you just have patience and meet new people. Love will find you when you are least expecting it!

4. If you are lonely, take up a new sport or exercise. Running and swimming in particular are great sports to relieve stress and depression.

5. Can you be a bit fussy when it comes to picking a new boyfriend/girlfriend? Maybe you need to pull down your standards and settle for someone who you wouldn't usually go for.

6. Being in a relationship with someone isn't easy at all, if anything people in relationships have more problems than singletons. Relationships are hard work, and isn't a walk in the park!

7. Always look on the bright side of life! Be happy and content within yourself and NEVER EVER think that you are not worthy of being in a relationship or that you are out of someone's league.

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Why sleep alone at night?
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Re: Why sleep alone at night?
« Reply #1 on: Oct 08, 2011, 01:05 PM »
sofamous70, thanks for you kicking series of advice. They are helpful. KipITup...

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Re: Why sleep alone at night?
« Reply #2 on: Oct 08, 2011, 02:53 PM »
@jobber,thanks also for taking your time to read the article...:)

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Re: Why sleep alone at night?
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