Popular relationship expert, Blessing Okoro has come out to make a case for married men who hide their children from their mistresses from their wives. She recently had her say as a guest on Arise TV, and fans have been reacting.
According to her, married men do it because a mistress is nothing but a woman a man likes, but cannot get married to, since he is already married to a legitimate wife.
Blessing added that men prefer to have a bond with their mistresses via their children since they do not see them as wife material.
Her words, “Mistress simply means I am in love with you but I have a wife. I can’t marry you. Some men will now be like let’s bond, let’s have a child together. If I can’t give you marriage, let there be something that ties us together.”
“There are lots of things that can affect our mental health but unfortunately, I am a realist. I like saying what happened not what supposed to be. There are some certain things that are supposed to be but it is not so let’s face the reality and be able to deal with it. If you are a side chic and you have a child and the man says ‘I don’t want to bring this home, respect him. He is doing what he is supposed to do as a father. He did not fail. The difference is ‘I don’t want drama, I don’t want chaos” because if you come in now there will be chaos, there will now be peace. Let me buy you a house, make you comfortable, make the child comfortable so he is my child I know.”
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