Submission Doesn’t Mean Slavery – Kaffy

Popular dancer, Kaffy has come out to write about submission in marriage. She recently had her say via her social media page, and Nigerians have been reacting.

According to her, she is tired of people using the word falsely consistently when it comes to marriage between a man and a woman.

Kaffy added that submission does not mean a woman is a slave to a man, and it doesn’t translate to a female lowering her voice and purpose in the presence of a man.

Her words, ”The word “Submission” if it were a human being would have committed suicide because of the falsehood attached to how it’s name has been used.”

“First of all the word does not mean one is a slave to another nor does it mean a woman must lower her voice , essence and purpose just because she is in the presence of a man.”

“Submission here to me (my point of view) is more of being in agreement with the thought, purpose, assignment and essence a man carries as this would gravely affect the amount of selfless , sacrifice and trust a woman needs to have to become the Favour God has ordained her to be to the man.
And don’t forget every woman carrying Favour is a woman with a dream and essence amd assignment too. She MUST only submit to one who would obtain what she carries in her that God wants to manifest into the world.”

“Man being a Lord , Custodian or asked to LOVE his wife also comes from a place of nurturing , developing , enduring ,learning , and so many more Christ – like qualities . And not just emotional and financial provision . The world needs to be a better place and it takes people who understands their assignment and purpose on earth.”

“A lot of our men don’t even have clarity of self , too much pressure ,distractions and expectations created by culture , society in fact safe to say expectations of the FLESH over that of the kingdom has led to a lot of straying of souls.”

“Both men and women need a break to gain clarity , to find themselves before seeking a partner .

“God help us all !”